This is not group therapy.

The Getting the Love You Want workshops will provide the safety needed to fully focus on your partner, yourself and your relationship. 


You will laugh, cry, ...laugh again, connect and discover a new way to communicate and a new way to love.

Maya is a master of creating a safe environment for everyone to look honestly at themselves and others and learn how to take their own next steps in healing and growth. 

Maya and Barbara will guide through a weekend of transformation.

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"One of the things I've learned at the workshop was that Love is a verb, an action. Every day now I challenge myself to find creative ways to show my wife that I love her."

—  Workshop Attendee

Q: We are often asked why we don't offer a "come one, come all" workshop.

A: Many from the LGBTQIA community continually encourage us to offer a LGBTQIA only workshop to maintain safety, so we do. The LGBTQIA couples are always welcome at either one.  

Getting the Love You Want - Inclusive & LGBTQIA
2.5 day Weekend Workshop (starts Friday night)
see dates below

The workshops gives supportive skills to understand and cope with not only the typical challenges of a relationship. The workshop helps dissolve isolation and creates a community of belonging and connection. Teaching them the Imago model is like offering these castaways the tools they need to build a paradise of connection.

The basis for this workshop rises out of the Imago Theory developed by Drs. Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt. It is comparable to 3 to 6 months of weekly therapy sessions in cognitive and experiential learning. It has been utilized by thousands of couples in twenty countries and is now available on 5 continents. It is not a quick fix. It is a realistic understanding of the path to a safe and passionate marriage or partnership, a roadmap of the journey, and the tools needed to get you there.


The workshop format includes:

  • Mini conversations about the purpose and dynamics of your relationship.

  • Individual reflection and writing using the "Getting the Love You Want" Couples' Manual.

  • Demonstrations of communication skills.

  • Practicing new behaviors and skills with your partner. While this workshop is conducted in a group environment you are not required to participate in personal group interaction. You share only with your partner in a safe, comfortable and confidential manner


Getting the Love You Want LGBTQIA 

December 2-4, 2022

Location: Pennington, NJ



Getting the Love You Want All Inclusive 

September 23-25, 2022

December 9-11, 2022


Location: Pennington, NJ